The strength is within us

The strength is within us. In recent years, it has become very popular to worry about your imperfect parenthood. Either people worry that they cannot give their children a better education, or they cannot draw and sculpt with them, or they shouted at them, etc. All this and much more, as a rule, is a reason for parental self-flagellation.

On this basis and on the basis of the profession, of course, I have formed a hobby. I really like to learn about the childhood of more or less happy and successful adults. I'm interested to know about the mechanism in their head. What caused them to choose to live an adequate, from the point of view of society, human life? Did they have a happy childhood? Are parents included? Grandmothers? Grandpas? What helped them?

Unfortunately, according to my observations, the causal relationship with childhood is not at all so clear. In any case, it is definitely not as obvious as we would like. Another thing is that we like to think that I will be like this in relation to my child and then I will provide him with a happy future. This is a good sedative, but not a guarantee at all.

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I have always been interested in people with a far from simple childhood, who, having gone through a small children's hell, bam, and grew up to be adequate, holistic and quite successful adults. What helped them?

For a couple of days, the network has been mourning for Yura Shatunov. I'm definitely not a fan of his work. But not knowing his songs by heart was impossible in my generation, because they sounded from every iron. One thing I've always wondered about him. What helped him create a normal family, love his only wife for so long, unlearn, build a career and generally be a very warm and sincere artist? What helped the boy from the orphanage not to become embittered, but to survive? In this context, I often thought about Yura.

It turns out that there is some kind of inner strength inside each of us? And some higher powers that take care of us?

But what if acquaintance with them for each of us is the key to that very harmonious life?

Through what, or perhaps through what events in your life, do you feel connected to these forces? What helped you stay consistent? Don't turn off the path? What do you think?